Wednesday, July 15, 2009

What do Jessica Simpson and I have in common??

Well, besides being dumped the day before your birthday and having to smile about it and act like everything is okay...unfortunately nothing...

I guess technically, I wasn't dumped...but my husband did leave and we are on a trial separation...whatever in the heck that's suppose to prove...

So, it's my birthday and I'll cry if I want too - and I have. It hurts. I am not for divorce and certainly DO NOT want to put my children through this but never the less here I am.

I love John with all my heart. We have been married for almost 14 years, grew up together. I've made him my everything and so today I feel lost, hurt and alone...


  1. I am so sorry to hear this. I hope it works out for the best. Happy Birthday. Wish You could have agood day but it sounds like it will not be so.

  2. I'm so sorry! I hope it all works out for the best. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you!

    Happy bday anyway and I hope that you can find some happiness in it! :D

  3. Oh my gosh! It's so sad when people are blind sited like that. Just have faith that everything will come together the way it's supposed to. Because it will.

  4. I hope you and your husband can work things out if it is what you want to happen. Whatever the outcome, you WILL get through this...and so will the kids.

  5. that is horrible. i'm sorry for you. i'm sorry for your kids. and i'm sorry for him. i will definitely be praying for your family.

    and happy birthday. :)

  6. Oh my gosh so sorry I'm just now seeing this! I'm sorry about your birthday being messed up like that but even more sorry for the pain you're going through! I'm praying for God's will in this situation for you and your family. **Hugs**

  7. WoW...that sucks--hopefully it won't come to the {D} word..
    Sending thoughts and prayers your way!! :)
    Happy Belated BD

  8. HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY JENNIFER: Carl and I are seeing someone, in Matthews. Without this I would be long gone. I can give you some contact info? Or I can just pray God's will and not mine.

  9. I am so sorry that you are hurting. This would be devastating to anyone.

    I will pray for you, my friend. I hope you have lots of family and friends who are supporting you right now!

    I will say happy birthday even though it wasn't. (((Hugs!)))

  10. Oh sweetheart. How terrible. I'm so excited he is willing to go to counseling to help.

    May I also suggest a book to you? Love and Respect. And Created to be his helpmeet.